While I was at work today a lady came into my office wearing a little too much makeup. One of my colleagues reacted by saying that she looked like a witch. A little too harsh, isn't it?
She even continued by saying that makeup is a waste of time and that it's for ugly people. She didn't recognized the irony until I highlighted the face that she was wearing lipstick.
I don't believe makeup is a waste of time, nor do I believe that it's only for ugly people. Makeup has it's purpose and people, and once it is applied as it should I believe that it can actually make a person look better, or pretty in some cases. On the contrary, if it isn't applied correctly it can make you look like your're an advocate for witchcraft or something sinister.
I was attending a friend's wedding, and there was this guy wearing face powder. I'm not sure whether he applied it himself or he lost a bet, but I found that rather strange and queer. The powder was so much that it even messed up his white shirt.
But why do women really wear makeup? Does it actually make them pretty or prettier?
Beauty is relative; someone might be pretty to you, but to me, they're not so pretty. But who really are they trying to impress when they apply the makeup? Are they trying to make themselves feel confident?
I have female friends that wear makeup, and they look good, but when they approach me for a hug, or even when they get too close, I have to angle myself in such a way that piece of their face won't be left on my clothes. It's pretty uncomfortable and unwelcoming. Some guys can't touch their girl's face, they'd mess up their entire life. That would be a big upset for me, because I like kissing my girl on the forehead, and if she's gonna tell me I can't because of the makeup then we're gonna have a problem.
Science shows that men like women with less makeup. For me, I'd prefer a woman without the makeup. But even if this fact is highlighted to the world women would still find themselves with a supply of makeup tucked away. And that's mainly because women don't just dress up to look good to impress men, but to compete with other women, basically. I'll try to address that in another blog.
Some women actually wear makeup to make themselves feel good, and that's good in it's own way, but sometimes it's so extreme that it makes them uncomfortable. They can't smile too long, water can't touch their face etc. But what if the guy you're with likes you without it? Would you still be inclined to wearing makeup as much as you used to? Well, you shouldn't. Why? Because this guy already accepted you as you are, naturally. And I think he'd be happy to know that if he marries you, when he wakes up next to you he wouldn't want to know how some other woman got into his bed. Some women also wear makeup all the time, even at home. I'm not sure how they keep that up. It must be a lot of work. They probably forgot how they even look without it.
But all in all, if you think it makes you look good or better, then wear it, but not too much. Likewise, if you don't like it then don't use it, but don't be a douche about those that wear it. Also, if your partner likes you natural, try to ease up on it. Let your face breathe a little. You'll give him a chance to like you as you really are.
Firstly, the title is grammatically incorrect-it should be "Does Makeup..." Secondly, SCIENCE doesn't show anything. A study was conducted with the aim of determining whether males prefer females without makeup or not. The findings of that study showed that men preferred women with makeup. However, the findings of the study were invalid due to the research method used to conduct the study. A follow up study was done using a modified research method and the findings of the follow up study showed that men in fact prefer women WITH makeup. You should read more on that. The reason I'm criticizing is because I'm a psych student and it gets to me when facts, such as the one used in this blog, are misused. Good blog though. :) You're doing a good job.
ReplyDeleteThanks Tali :)
ReplyDeleteI'll try to be sure to used more scientific studies an researches rather than just random articles.
Thanks for reading