Most relationships are initiated because sex or some kind of sexual attraction. Ironically, most relationships end because of sex. Also, sex is the remnant of most relationship, if not the only thing that was present from the inception.
Women usually think that sex is the ultimate reward for their spouse after doing something for them or achieving something. If he treats her good, she'll have sex with him. If he buys her gifts, she'll "lay it on him real good."
But is that the only thing you can give...your body?
Is sex the only thing you can give to a man?
There must be something else that you can do to satisfy a man without opening your legs. If every time he does something good, you reward him with sex, eventually he will stop doing good things, because he already knows the incentive is sex. And eventually, that incentive will lose it's purpose. Likewise, be assured that the rewarder also will lose her purpose.
All men want sex. But sex is not all men want. And if sex is all you have to offer, then sex is all he will take. Your value, your self-worth is dependent on how good that sex is. What value will you be when you can give him sex?
How about a good conversation?
You don't have to be the smartest girl. You don't have to be a babble mouth. Yes, some men don't like to talk too much. But try to learn about his interests. Maybe you might be interested in something that is. You'd be surprised to hear how he'd babble about a sports game or new gadgets or some social issue if you raise the topic. And even though he may not want to talk, sometimes listening to you may find him trying to learn about you. You'll both understand each other more and quality time for you both will be more and more progressive. He will make time for you, because he knows that he will be learning about his woman more. And trust me, men always wants to know about his woman.
How about you cook him a nice meal?
Sounds sexist, doesn't it? And it's like you're doing everything, right?
But if you want this guy to stick around, try feeding him. He will very well come by as often as he could. Soon enough he'd even be proposing.
Once he's fed you can get him to do almost anything you want...especially if the food is really good.
Play with him, watch the game with him, go watch him play sports...there are so many things you can do to please a man without having sex with him.
I can't tell you how to please your man, nor can I tell you how to keep him...but sex won't make him stay with you. Will you raise his children with sex? And if all you can reward him with is sex, then you are very weak....and not very far from a prostitute
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