Sunday, 31 August 2014

Why Do Men Cheat (In My Opinion)

This is one of the most controversial social issues, and I would like to address it using my experiences, observations and general understanding.

Hear me out a little...

WHY DO MEN CHEAT? 
Answer: Simply because they can.

Seems a little bit too straight forward, doesn't it?

Men don't need any long, drawn out explanations or epistemology, they will cheat if they can.
If there is a chance that a man can have sexual relations outside of his relationship without any third party knowing, he will most likely take that chance.

Cheating, to me, is any dishonest or unfair act within a relationship, which includes depriving your partner of certain privileges, and giving that part of yourself  and attention that is supposed to be for your partner to another party; which includes lust, flirting, sex and sexual activities outside of the relationship, having a relationship with another party among other akin situations).

Now, what can stop a man from having sex with another woman that wants to have sex with him? What can stop a man from flirting? What can stop a man from thinking about having sex with your best friend or sister? What can stop a man from having several other relationships? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

We all know that men are visual; their bodies respond sexually to what they see. This means the vast majority of men, if not all, respond to visual images when it comes to women. And, this doesn't just mean the guys with wandering eyes. Even the most godly husband cannot avoid noticing a woman who dressed in a way that draws attention to her body. Even if it's just a glance, these visual images are stored away in his brain as some sort of visual rolodex that will appear without warning. A man can be sexually aroused just by looking at a woman. She doesn't have to say a word to him, she doesn't have to touch him, she might not even know he exist, but in his mind he just wants to have sex with her. But the thing is, men can choose whether to dwell on these images and memories or dismiss them. But they can't control when these images appear.

No matter how good of a person he may be. He may very well treat you better than anyone else in the world, as long as he can cheat with even the slightest chance of you finding out, he "might". And it doesn't matter how good of a girl you are either, you can have all the right assets, that sure won't stop him from flirting with that girl at work. Some men are with some most beautiful women on the face of this earth, and they would cheat with some skank they don't even know.

Literally, if you want to stop your man from cheating, you must always be around your man when he has sexual urges. And that is almost impossible.

THERE IS ONLY ONE THING THAT CAN STOP A MAN FROM CHEATING, Himself.

Not all men cheat! That should be the best part of this blog.
Not all men cheat. Some men, are really committed to their wives or girlfriends that they actually resist some of the strongest temptations from some of the sexiest and easiest women to get.
But that is literally all it takes for you to be in a relationship free from infidelity; A MAN THAT IS COMMITTED TO HIS WOMAN. It's probably one of the hardest things to do, and women with such men should be most grateful.

I can't tell you how if your man is faithful or committed. But, if there is no evidence of him cheating or any signs of infidelity, then you should be happy to be with that guy.

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